Habit 3: Put First Things First
Work First, Then Play
Big Rocks are the most important things for you to do, such as spending time with your family, planning family meals, and getting an education. Little rocks are the less important things for you to do, such as watching TV for long periods of time, playing video games, or aimlessly searching the Internet/social media.
STEPS
1. I spend my time on things that are most important.
2. I say no to things I know I should not do.
3. I set priorities, make a schedule, and follow my plan.
4. I am disciplined and organized.
Family Activity:
HOW DO WE PUT FAMILY TIME FIRST?
• Develop a family mission statement
• Schedule one-on-one bonding time
• Have regular family meals.
• Plan regular family times.
• Build family traditions.
HOW CAN I HELP MY CHILD WITH THEIR BIG ROCKS?
Ask them what they feel are their most important jobs or responsibilities. Suggest they do the hardest part of their homework or chores first. Describe the word ‘procrastinate’ to your child. What is something they have been procrastinating?
Keeping the family close with so many distractions can be tricky. Designating a specific time each week for family time will keep everyone on the same page.
• Read a book together.
• Learn a new skill.
• Play a board game.
• Make a meal together.
• Visit a local attraction.
• Learn about and practice a habit.
• Discuss family matters (school, activities, etc.).
• Plan an important upcoming family tradition.
• Plan your week.
• Share talents.
• Eat together.
• Do a service project.
• Solve problems together.
What day and time of the week are you going to meet as a family? *Put a reminder in your phone calendars and in a place in the home that can be seen by all.
What are your family's traditions? What is a tradition that you would like to start?