Habit 6: Synergize
Together is Better
âSynergy is not just teamwork or cooperation. Synergy is creative teamwork, creative cooperation.
Something new is created that was not there before.â
âStephen R. Covey
Pick a date this month to Synergize as a family. Ask your family to think about a certain issue and bring their ideas to a family meeting. At the meeting, creatively work together using the âFamily Synergy Action Plan.â
WHAT IS SYNERGY?
Synergy is:
1. Celebrating differences.
2. Working together.
3. Being open-minded.
4. Finding new and better ways.
Synergy is not:
1. Being intolerant.
2. Working independently.
3. Thinking you are always right.
4. Being selfish.
STEPS- Follow these steps to create synergy in your family-
1. Define: Clarify the problem or issue.
2. Their way: Seek first to understand the other personâs needs.
3. My way: Seek to be understood by sharing you needs and ideas.
4. Brainstorm: Create new options and ideas together.
5. Synergize: Find the best solutionâthe 3rd Alternative.
Real family example:
⢠Problem: How to spend Saturdays.
⢠Dad wants to spend time as a family outside. Mom wants to get all the housework done.
⢠Can we do both and not compromise?
⢠Mom makes a reasonable list of housework that needs to be done sometime during the day.
The family can do an activity together either before or after housework, depending on the weather.
Family Activity:
HOW CAN YOU CREATE SYNERGY IN YOUR FAMILY?
Synergyâcreative family teamworkâoccurs when you follow two simple rules:
1. Value one another.
2. Recognize strengths.
How can you value your family members? Choose any family member and finish the following sentences keeping them in mind.
1. What I admire most about you isâŚ
2. One of my favorite memories isâŚ
3. Iâm glad you are
and Iâm not.
4. One of the funniest things you have ever done isâŚ
5. One of my proudest memories of you isâŚ
6. I like it when youâŚ
Share your answers with that family member. How did they respond? Did they learn something new about themself?